dont get the title of this post wrong or twisted. i have flaws and i am the first to admit to them, but i seem to find the flaws in others more easily (some might call it judgment, and who am i to judge. right?). i feel as if these flaws in people are made by their romanticized ideas of what there life is. for instance, i dont think that being a young mother should be put out there for the world to see (i.e. on facebook, myspace, or twitter). wouldnt you want to keep that private for only you and your family? i honestly dont see the big rush in having babies at the age of 22. why wouldnt you want to enjoy your life? you are young, have fun. i wouldnt want to be 30, and have my son/daughter be 8, and say "i wish i would have done,gone,experienced...." i dont want to say that having babies is a mistake, and wouldnt want anyone to regret it; but if you are having sex and dont want an UNEXPECTED baby...use condoms, birth control, the pull out method? do something. and do something with your life! dont you want to experience life?