both of my exs are complete and utter morons. both for diff. reasons. one, because he wants his cake and eat it too. and the second, because he gives himself too much credit for my life. one and i have had a rocky history, i did let him get away with alot. on and off but mainly off with. not always being honest, or faithful. two and i havent had that much, but we will always share a common bond. i have been able to remain friends with both because they are a big part of my life. but now, other people being in the picture, (dont get me wrong, im not the jealous type...im just over protective), is making me feel like im losing a part of my life/only with two. one and i are completely done. i have always known what kind of a dog he was, i just wasnt ready to accept it. dogs have flees, please stay away from me. two has this crazy girl that i have never met, but she seems to have this pre-disposed opinion of me. i would really rather not even get involved, but he is my friend first and my ex second. can i try to give him friendly advice without it coming off as jealous, or interested? i dont want him to get the wrong idea. hmmm...it seems that whatever i say wont matter. i just hope not to lose a great friend over a relationship that doesnt seem to be going anywhere.
